Dhal gaya din...

Dhal gaya din, baatein kuch adhoori si hain...

This is what we all are looking for, isn't it? To let go off a day to bring in the breeze of the fresh Morning, the sunrise after a tough sunset. Each one of us is suffering from some issue or the other carrying the biggest possible fake smile which could hide all the tears and sorrows.

A mask of bravery and strength behind which every personality is seeking some support some kind words and a pat on the back, ears waiting to hear "you can do it"! And here comes the ego, self-respect, responsibility and the position we all are sitting at from where none of us can afford to cry, to speak no matter how hard the heart is willing to scream and share all the grief with the world outside but the brain is way too logical to do that.

IN PICTURE: SHUBHI KRITI SAXENA

The solution to which is probably hidden in buying a car or a mattress, a right office chair or the clothes we wear, comfort is all we care but why do we remain in human relations which aren't comfortable at all? Why can't we speak our heart out, no matter where we stand?

Why do the closest of people and dearest ones leave when the need for comfort is the most?

Probably because in the worst of mood, the best of the mattress irritates us. The best of car fails in comforting us in the worst weather and the pathetic traffic and the best of chair won't let us stay in the job when the worst boss confronts us and therefore the best and the worst isn't materialistic nor related to a personality but is more situational... this simple logic, yet difficult to understand!! practically do it!! because if I can do it; so can you!!

You can speak because you define the position, the position doesn't define you!! you can speak because the person isn't wrong the circumstances are!! The cloudy the weather, the rainy the season, one may crib the other may rejoice; because it is impersonal as it is more situational!! You, the person and the relationship is important not the situations you are in, they may go, they may come!! the person won't!! you won't!!

Let go off the mask, let go of the disturbances, let go of the grudges... Say it.. because you can!!

dhal gaya din, zaroori nahin baatein dhal gayin,
din zaroor poora hua hai,
par baatein reh gayi adhoori hain,
shayad isliye kahani bhi abhi adhoori si hi hai!
kyun na kuch pal diye jaayein maafi aur baaton ko,
kuch shaamein guzar jaane dein,
galatfehmyaan mit jaane dein,
aur khwaabon ko hakeekat bann jaane dein?

Khushbu Bhardwaj

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