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Why me?? Not again! Not any more!!


There you go!!
We take up a new job!! We leave!! We crib!! We argue!! We break up!! We stay!! We suffer!! We fall into guilt!! and pressure of being into things we never wanted to fall for.


"Why me?" comes when we fail to answer "Why are we into this", it is important we pay attention to what we are doing and why we are doing before it is too late.


It is important to know, WHY are you falling for certain things, certain stuff, certain people and certain places, even more important, WHY are you rejecting others? To make it simpler, I rejected A for B not because I love B more, but because I can't keep up with A... and that's traumatizing!! You need to know why you love B more, you need to know how B inspires you!! rejection of one is never a base for other selections! 

WHY do you wish to switch your career, are you achieving the results, the salary, the satisfaction and the motivation for which you switched on the first place??

Your understanding of WHY simply resolves a lot of issues and clutter in your head, your answer to WHY helps you overcome the otherwise growing guilt!! Your response to your WHY helps you take logical, and the right decisions.

Whatever we decide we are going to do; it is important to attach WHY are we doing it!! And even after years of being into a profession, being into a relationship, being into a place, you aren't able to answer yourself "WHY AM I HERE?" please leave! Probably, leaving would help you identify why WERE you there...!! Without a reason, there's no SUSTAINABILITY, rather, there should not be! Because without a reason, things don’t make sense! Do they? there is a reason for everything that happens in the universe, why is there no reason for what you do and what happens with you? while still being a part of the whole wide world!?

What makes you break your exercise routine?? Because you don't understand why you started a ritual in the first place!!

What makes you take up a job and why aren't you satisfied now?? Think of all the reasons you took that up...!! Are they accomplished yet! No?? Stay! Or leave!! but decide! Oh, but wait! Remember why you choose to stay or to sustain, or to leave, that makes sense! That answer would make sense...

An exercise of writing answers to WHY...?? And life's simple and beyond imaginable!!

Next the time you're stuck, and you don't know what to do... why not think of WHY you started!!?? and you will be saved from multiple "Why me??"

~khushbu Bhardwaj 


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  1. Sunveer BhambraJune 18, 2019 at 7:53 AM

    Nice. Of all the questions one can have, probably, the most important one...

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