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Questions Worth Asking!! Aren't They??

Another chance? 

Too much to ask, too little time...!
Too much to say, too little words...!
Too much regret! Is there a chance to overcome...?

What hurts more? Losing love or friendship? What is worth fighting for? And what is worth chasing? What gives you solace? And what is worth keeping forever? where you must dilute all the boundaries? What must demand all your attention? And in which relation should you cross all the limits to protect it? When there's this last thread of hope left... should you protect it? Or break it too? When do you decide to step out of a relationship? And when do you consider your friendship is on a ventilator? How do you protect it? And for that matter should you even bother? 

One sided love is seen a lot, should you keep chasing one-sided friendship too? Forgo love for friendship or forgo friendship for love? when you must let go of your ego? Is it your friendship that's above respect or should respect be the base to define boundaries? and if at all Love follows friendship, why is it difficult to keep the ego aside?? Can love sustain in all circumstances as friendship do? sounds difficult, maybe because expectations are bigger and huge but unfortunately, in that ego fight friendship loses too!! 

Long story short!! He chose friendship over love!! and he's happy. She chose love over friendship!! and she's seems lost, he (her love) is in a dilemma to choose friendship over love, and she's still waiting for the love (him), in the most uncertain situations, if she finally realizes and decides to fall back to gain the lost friend, is she too late? or is she just on time to save the only thread left but making another mistake by chasing the (no idea what the status is) friendship?
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A lot many times, we act too soon, without even giving it a second thought!! we don't listen to our dire needs!! why do we need all the sacrifice in the world!! and if at all we do, and that saves the relationship, why do we regret?? why can we trust ourselves and decide what we want!! why can't we both happily sacrifice for each other? why can't we fight for what we want?? why is this so difficult to cherish the relationships we already have!! 

What on earth makes us grow?? why can't we stay kids and fight and argue and complain and go back to the same friends the next day!!? was he right when he decided to keep his friendship? Isn't this her right to get her love she chose and another chance in her lost friendship?

Too many to ask!! fortunately, the answer only resides within us!!

Happy asking!!
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~Khushbu Bhardwaj 
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