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Somebody Vs. Anybody

Miles to Go!! Before I sleep...

Often, I end up having an argument with my dear ones! Do you?? My most favorite and the most recent argument is “to be somebody or anybody in life!!” 
The situation goes…
Last night I was flipping through the pages of one of my favorite writer Mahātria Rā’s, “Most and More”. It was then, a phrase caught my attention, “what do you want to be, somebody or anybody”, made me explore it further, not like I am against “being someone”, but are we sure, one can enjoy the entire journey by being just someone?? 
At once, Like most of us, I felt yes! I want to be somebody in my life and considering, my clarity on my thought and I knew the other second, that I am born to be somebody who must create a difference in people's life. Somebody who could be an inspiration to the world having wings to fly to explore, come what may, I will reach my destination. With this thought, I went off to sleep.
The next morning I figured, whatever goes on in our head is actually the food for our minds to ponder over. Probably the reason why I believe we must never sleep with hate and anger, anyway, coming back to where we started,
That morning when the alarm went off I was not just awake my mind was subconsciously hovering over the thought I had the previous night. “Why can’t you be anybody during the journey to becoming somebody?” was the first question that struck my mind, the first thing in the morning. Yes! that's what I want to be, it's like you’ve got wings, you’re flapping them, but you just have no idea how far can you travel with them, you are not meant to stay in the same garden forever.
Why do you limit yourself to being just somebody? Why can't you be just anybody or be a people’s person? You might love to interact! You might enjoy art! Listening to music! A fan of poetry and storytelling! Writing! Teaching! Just Anything! That is what I do and that is who I am!
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When you decide to become someone, you along with other people keep pulling you back to be the one and eventually we end up being in the same garden, they will keep stopping you!! They will define your limits within which you are then allowed to fly, and it's us who's responsible for this, we need to tell them our world is beyond their imagination, especially to the ones who keep defining our limits. You are not Limited and this journey is all about exploring the best version of ourselves every day! Why do you want to allow anyone to Limit your personal self? Or even us?? 
You’ve your own area of interest, your field, and your expertise and you can achieve everything you wish to, to become someone by being anyone in that zone.
You have your goal, now start exploring!!

Khushbu Bhardwaj
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Location: Jaipur, Rajasthan, India

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