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Have You been Grateful to them??


It was 17th July around 11:30 PM when my phone buzzed *Beep-Beep* one unread message.
The message reads "There is a comment from your Ex-boss on my post, possibly by mistake, but you must not ignore, therefore thought to personally text you" and that comment reads "great job Khushbu".




I decided to either like it or simply love it, see, how Facebook has restricted our chain of thoughts into simple clicks, even when we must not!


A moment later, I was lost in the memories of what all we shared together while we worked, the amount of learning and support I had, and the faith she had in me.

This is when I realized, that our relation deserves more than just a 'like' and it made me go back to the comment to ensure I don't lose upon an opportunity to thank the person who has been a mentor to me.

Remembering her took my attention to many people, some of the old school friends, primary teachers, College friends, professors and sometimes, that person could be an absolute stranger, with whom we never exchanged any considerable emotion, however, just a piece of advice or some learning and experience which brings in a change which pushes us closer to an altogether different personality.

Every personality leaves a certain impact on us which help transform ourselves, also sometimes adds value may be diminutive to our accomplishments, but they do! and sometimes these personalities help us with, how to behave, and how not to behave, however, having known these facts already, have we ever been grateful to them?

The people I have met so far have improved my personality In entirety, with them I have learned so much in life...my list is endless.

While reading, a lot of people must have crossed your mind too, from your past or present who were and who are being a part of your success in this journey. Whilst we are moving closer to our goal, we tend to become self-centered and we have a propensity for forgetting those tiniest contributions made by certain people. It is high time we thank them enough, whoever we are today they also have a share in the same.

We all need their blessings and a lot of support, these people might never be able to support us financially, or with any materialistic thing or we never are able to support them in the same manner
Although we can never thank them enough rather we can show enough gratitude to keep this exchange of ideas, thoughts, culture, values, personalities goes on eternally and our emotional Bank account is always flooded with all the positivity and blessings.

Just as in a savings account, withdrawal in a relationship has been possible only to the extent we have made deposits in that relationship.

I have personally tried it and the kind of smile and happiness that glows on their faces cannot be compared with anything worth millions and millions of dollars when we talk of removing toxicity one way to do this is to express thanks even to those who have been a part of what not to do and how not to behave because the best way to destroy your enemies is to make them your friends but do it wisely.

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